"Suzanne, listen. Those things that Larry said on the radio? They sounded a lot worse than they really were. And when I said those things to him, it was before I knew you. Before I knew what a nice person you are. And you have to admit that you come on a little strong."
"It’s okay, dandelion. You know why?"
White feminists need to understand that not all men are sexualized in a way that wholly benefits them. That is something exclusive to white men point blank period.
Because MOC are sexualized in ways that remove their agency and their humanity, and most times this is perpetrated by both white women and white men.
So when you’re talking about the sexualization of men giving men power, you need to be specific about which group of men you’re talking about.